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airbornesickness:

z33zy:

musicnotesandyarn:

inday-en-en:

No. You had sex with a girl when you were a child. It ended in pregnancy. You are attacking the morality of a 14 year old girl who terminated a pregnancy that would have resulted in a child that neither you or her had the capacity to care for. A girl that preserved your and her own youth, and stopped a child being raised in circumstances that are not fit for any child. You really should be assessing your own morality. What kind of 14 year old boy fucks a 14 year old girl, without protection, gets her pregnant and then runs an online smear campaign against her for doing what was best for her, her family and you? What? You think you had the capacity to raise a child at age 14/15? How would you feed it or look after it? You wouldn’t. You were going to dump it on her or your own parents, live like the carefree little shit you are and occasionally play with the child when you could be bothered and think “Wow, what a good, brave young father I am.” You made the mistake, she went through the trauma of saving your youth for you. You owe her so much better than this. You absolutely disgust me. Less than forward-slash three, you’re real fucking remorseful. That’s poetry that is. You’re breaking my heart kid. That girl should have every right to decide what she wants to do to her body. The idea that you should take responsibility and give birth implies that you are responsible to this fetus and you owe it something. A pregnant person does not owe a fetus anything any more than they owe you an apology for being alive. Try again, pro lifers. Pro-Choice

I know people are going to say a father has rights, but jesus christ. At 14, I’d be surprised if the girl and/or the baby survived. Getting an abortion could have saved her life. This kid needs to GTFO and STFU. He should care about this girl and her life enough to use protection and advise her to do the same. And I bet she feels bad enough as it is without his punk ass doing this to her. 

bless this fucking post and bless these comments jfc i hate this gif like for real

hummmhallelujah:

I would just like to say that my mother got pregnant with me when she was 15. My dad was 17, and they’d been together for a  few years. When he found out she was pregnant, he had nothing else to do with her, and told all their friends she had cheated on him, and that I wasn’t his child. My mom’s dad screamed for her to have an abortion, but her mom stood by her, and did everything for her, so that she could have a healthy pregnancy, and so that I could stand a chance. It was hard, but my mom finished high school, and found a good guy and got married when I was 5. My mom and step-dad are still together, and my mom’s mom and I are very close, because she’s the reason I’m alive, and I’m so grateful. I guess my point is, at least this guy cared about his child. My father never gave a damn about me. This girl he got pregnant opened her legs voluntarily, consenting to unprotected sex, which got her pregnant. Guess what? THAT’S HOW IT WORKS. In my opinion, if you consent to unprotected sex, you have NO right to terminate the resulting child’s life. If nothing else, give the child up for adoption. Life is always worth it.